What do you call people who like to tease people because they are better than others?
Posted by admin on Mar.11, 2010, under Riches Books
for example, I know this guy who will always be condescendingto people who have less money than him, but respect the ones with money….why do people exhibit this type of behaviour…ALSO, when they "come up" through hanging with the rich and stepping on others toes….what do they actually gain, internally…..I know it’s all about lack of self esteem with them, but I really wanna know, once they get what they want, do they then gain good self esteem, or what? thanks
Bullies are narcissistic. Narcissistic personality disorder is 85% alcoholics and/or drug addicts, 15% they believe are children who were raised by alcoholics or drug addicts, or just simply put down by someone when they were small children. Someone hurt them when they were little and made them feel small, and that is why they do it to other people. They have to put others down in order to make themselves feel bigger. (Not that that is an excuse.) They think they are God like, Saints, with grand egos, I call them destroyers, they just destroy people. In their mind they are right and the world is all wrong, they don’t have a problem, you do. They put others down because they are bullies, and cowards. They put others down because they have no self esteem. If they are putting you down, and pointing out your flaws, no one is noticing their flaws. In their mind they think it is their job to put others down, it is their duty. They are social, and the rest of the world is anti social, they are perfect and you are the one who is flawed. They cannot and do not take responsibility for their actions and behaviors, so they will never say they are sorry, because in their mind they have done no wrong, they have done nothing to be sorry for. They can go to therapy for years and have no change in their behavior or actions, because in their mind they are saints, and perfect, so they have nothing to change about themselves. I am not really sure if they even comprehend how they hurt other people. The best thing to do is to stay away from these people if possible. They cannot change and they will just bring you down. My in laws are this way, so I know how you feel. After 20 years of abuse they are now banned from my house. While they had the benefit of putting us down and hurting our feelings, they did pay a price. They are now retired and none of their children, their spouses, even their grand children, none of us want to be around them. They enjoyed abusing us all those years, and now they spend their holidays alone. They do pay a price.
March 11th, 2010 on 8:59 pm
ASS HOLES.
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March 11th, 2010 on 9:10 pm
Narcissistic!!
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March 11th, 2010 on 9:58 pm
Pretentious
Insecure
Poser
Boorish
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March 11th, 2010 on 10:22 pm
Some descriptions of these turds are:
cheeky, cocky, conceited, haughty, high and mighty, impertinent, know-it-all, pompous, pretentious, self-important, smug, snobby, snooty, stuck-up, uppity
I don’t think they really gain anything. they do it because it’s probably the way they were brought up.
I think they do have good self esteem because they think they’re better than everyone else…but in reality they suck and are actually worse off than the people they put down. Ugly people inside!
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March 11th, 2010 on 10:46 pm
Bullies are narcissistic. Narcissistic personality disorder is 85% alcoholics and/or drug addicts, 15% they believe are children who were raised by alcoholics or drug addicts, or just simply put down by someone when they were small children. Someone hurt them when they were little and made them feel small, and that is why they do it to other people. They have to put others down in order to make themselves feel bigger. (Not that that is an excuse.) They think they are God like, Saints, with grand egos, I call them destroyers, they just destroy people. In their mind they are right and the world is all wrong, they don’t have a problem, you do. They put others down because they are bullies, and cowards. They put others down because they have no self esteem. If they are putting you down, and pointing out your flaws, no one is noticing their flaws. In their mind they think it is their job to put others down, it is their duty. They are social, and the rest of the world is anti social, they are perfect and you are the one who is flawed. They cannot and do not take responsibility for their actions and behaviors, so they will never say they are sorry, because in their mind they have done no wrong, they have done nothing to be sorry for. They can go to therapy for years and have no change in their behavior or actions, because in their mind they are saints, and perfect, so they have nothing to change about themselves. I am not really sure if they even comprehend how they hurt other people. The best thing to do is to stay away from these people if possible. They cannot change and they will just bring you down. My in laws are this way, so I know how you feel. After 20 years of abuse they are now banned from my house. While they had the benefit of putting us down and hurting our feelings, they did pay a price. They are now retired and none of their children, their spouses, even their grand children, none of us want to be around them. They enjoyed abusing us all those years, and now they spend their holidays alone. They do pay a price.
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March 11th, 2010 on 11:36 pm
well they are prideful and partial people.
prideful in the sense that they think they are better than others. And partial in the fact that they show partiality towards those with money and look down on those without money.
The book of James in the Bible talks about showing partiality to a rich person by treating them better than a poor person and how/why it is wrong to do so. Not to mention the fact that is a sin.
Check out the beginning of James ch. 2.
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